{"id":870,"date":"2011-11-14T17:33:01","date_gmt":"2011-11-14T17:33:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/?p=870"},"modified":"2011-11-14T17:33:01","modified_gmt":"2011-11-14T17:33:01","slug":"friends-with-benefits-in-india-really","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/life-style\/friends-with-benefits-in-india-really\/","title":{"rendered":"Friends with benefits &#8230; in &#8220;India&#8221;? Really!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In this day and age where people work like machines, sex has simply become a form of rejuvenation. But with no time for socializing, let alone having a deep, meaningful relationship, people have started to turn to none other than their own friends to \u2018fulfill their needs\u2019. So unfolds a new pact between Venus and Mars: <strong>&#8220;Friends with Benefits&#8221;<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_887\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-887\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends_with_benefits_c.jpg\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-887 lazyload\" title=\"friends_with_benefits_c\" data-src=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends_with_benefits_c-300x187.jpg\" alt=\"Friends with benefits.. in India really??\" width=\"300\" height=\"187\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends_with_benefits_c-300x187.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends_with_benefits_c.jpg 425w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/187;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-887\" title=\"friends_with_benefits_c\" src=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends_with_benefits_c-300x187.jpg\" alt=\"Friends with benefits.. in India really??\" width=\"300\" height=\"187\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends_with_benefits_c-300x187.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends_with_benefits_c.jpg 425w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-887\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Friends with benefits.. in India really??<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not sleazy like a one-night stand; it&#8217;s a mutual understanding between two pals of the opposite sex and definitely on the top ten lists of ways to make life perfect, right after threesomes and stag nights.<\/p>\n<p>The West obviously sees no dearth of such populations, but is it commonplace in India to have sex-buddies?<\/p>\n<p>Yes it is.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>But in India??<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The prerequisite of an Indian happily-ever-after is slowly being reduced to a fable and living together is now obsolete. This generation (yes, including women) now wants sex on tap, minus the frills. Indians may not speak up very easily about issues that go against the traditional Indian morale, but times change and so does the mindset of people. Until a few years back a simple kiss in a movie was a taboo, but it isn\u2019t so anymore. The new generation now speaks frankly about sex, and homosexuals have begun to come out in the open. Similarly, the concept of Friends with Benefits isn\u2019t uncommon here; it just is a little less spoken of. That too will change in a matter of time.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_888\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-888\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends-with-benefits.gif\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-888 lazyload\" title=\"friends-with-benefits\" data-src=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends-with-benefits-300x273.gif\" alt=\"Types of Friends with benefits\" width=\"300\" height=\"273\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends-with-benefits-300x273.gif 300w, https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends-with-benefits.gif 650w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/273;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-888\" title=\"friends-with-benefits\" src=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends-with-benefits-300x273.gif\" alt=\"Types of Friends with benefits\" width=\"300\" height=\"273\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends-with-benefits-300x273.gif 300w, https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/friends-with-benefits.gif 650w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-888\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Types of Friends with benefits<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The idea of casual sex comes off as very \u2018collegy\u2019 and is much more common among youngsters than people, say, in their late twenties or more. More number of high school and college students indulge in such a practice as they\u2019re young and still discovering their sexuality.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Can a man &amp; woman be &#8220;just&#8221; friends??<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The more time one spends with another person involved in intimacies, the more intimate they get regardless of our overall intentions. It is never possible to remain just friends after a while. Like that old premise in \u201cWhen Harry Met Sally,\u201d men and women can\u2019t just be friends. Well, I mean that they definitely cannot just be friends if they\u2019re actively engaging in a sexual relationship. Either the duo ends up being a couple, or one of them ends up getting hurt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_889\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-889\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/lovesexfriendship.jpg\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-889 lazyload\" title=\"lovesexfriendship\" data-src=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/lovesexfriendship-300x285.jpg\" alt=\"Love + Sex + Friendship\" width=\"300\" height=\"285\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/lovesexfriendship-300x285.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/lovesexfriendship.jpg 500w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/285;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-889\" title=\"lovesexfriendship\" src=\"https:\/\/wordpress-256057-797351.cloudwaysapps.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/lovesexfriendship-300x285.jpg\" alt=\"Love + Sex + Friendship\" width=\"300\" height=\"285\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/lovesexfriendship-300x285.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/lovesexfriendship.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-889\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Love + Sex + Friendship<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Having such an arrangement is like being caught in limbo-both the participants are elevated above the position of friends, yet they haven\u2019t gained the priority of that \u2018special someone\u2019. And then one fine day the most dreaded question may arise, \u201cSo, where are we?\u201d And if you think, this doesn&#8217;t happen in an Friends with benefits\u00a0relationship, you&#8217;re misinformed. This happens more often than not in the Indian scenario, usually the question being popped by the woman.<\/p>\n<p>As time goes by, she begins to drop some of her new-age, cosmopolitan beliefs and starts to dig deeper in her soul for the conventional ideas that never leave the brains of Indian women. They begin to dream of marriage and a family and since this kind of involvement is the closest they are, at that moment, to a \u2018happily ever after\u2019, they start to look at their sexual partner in a whole different way, and not just as a friend.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Complications like these are absolutely inevitable almost every such symbiotic relationship. It may be convenient, time-saving and fun, but just like every other relationship, one has to head into it well-prepared-and not expect to be let off scot-free.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this day and age where people work like machines, sex has simply become a form of rejuvenation. But with no time for socializing, let alone having a deep, meaningful relationship, people have started to turn to none other than their own friends to \u2018fulfill their needs\u2019. So unfolds a<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":887,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15,8],"tags":[50,74,16794,77,121],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/870"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=870"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/870\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/887"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=870"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=870"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailyjag.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=870"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}