Move On are the two words we hear almost after every tragedy. Is it really that simple? Or it’s just a way to console yourself that the future is going to be better; those things which are easy to say but very hard to implement?
I don’t know how many times I have said it to others, but I do remember how hard it was for me, TO SAY IT TO MYSELF.
Saying this to others is sometimes equivalent to showing sympathy as you really care for that person but when you are the victim it’s a totally different scenario. EMOTIONS always come in between. You know what’s right for you, but still.
It’s kind of funny and weird. But that’s what life sometimes becomes, a tricky game where you know how to play but still couldn’t play that way.
“TO MOVE IS TO DESTROY
TO MOVE IS TO PRESERVE
TO MOVE FROM WHAT YOU DESIRE
TO MOVE TO WHAT YOU DESERVE”
But the main thing is HOW TO DO IT?
As if it was too easy then the jobs of psychiatrists would certainly be in danger.
Neither it’s easy, nor there is a particular way to handle it. Like different diseases require different medicines, the same way, “moving on” gets complicated in different circumstances.
Moving on is easy only in those cases when your HEART is not involved. But when you GET HURT, then even taking a single step forward becomes “MISSION IMPOSSIBLE”.
For all the cases that involve HEART (emotions) :
Sometimes you have to DESTROY, and sometimes you have to PRESERVE. Its your heart which should make the call between the two.
- To destroy what you have dreamt of. To hold inside what you really want
- To forget what was your life. To accept which could tear you apart
- To see an altogether new picture. To be strong and happy within when
- And discovering a new world after sleep. You know something inside is missing.
We all have heard of the DESTROY version, but sometimes you can’t destroy it. As you already have given your soul to it and all there is left for you to is to ACCEPT it.
I know it’s very hard to accept, as presently your life is all around that thing or person, but the day you accept the fact, everything starts going back to normal again, and after a while, you will find PEACE inside yourself.
You can guide your brain but The Heart has its own perspective. It doesn’t decide logically but truly, it knows what you really want (love), and it just starts following that.
AND THE FIRST STEP FOR MOVING ON IS, TO BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. CONFRONT THE SITUATION, DON’T RUN AWAY………
So if you are facing a hard time and you don’t know why and you are blaming yourself for being true, being honest or being what you are then please don’t be as sometimes blessings do come in disguise. To move you from what YOU DESIRE to what you DESERVE…
And sometimes what you deserve is much better than what you desire!
LIFE IS A CIRCLE, ALWAYS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND LIFE WOULD PRESENT ITSELF TO YOU SOMEDAY,
AND TILL THEN “JUST MOVE ON“
AS WHO KNOWS WHILE YOU ARE CRYING HERE, SOMEONE OR SOMETHING IS WAITING FOR YOU ELSEWHERE !! 🙂